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Thursday, 12 September 2024
#Freshers - From a Parent to Parents 2024
Tears, Fears and the Empty Nest
I did cry - no point pretending but I think timing is everything on this one. Its not okay to be weeping and wailing while gripping onto your student's leg when they are at the fresher Meet and Greet! That wouldn't be pretty.
When my first child left I thought I would be bereft, like me a chatterbox. the very notion of our home without them was unbearable. The night before the big move we cuddled and sniveled, I made us watch a film we'd always promised to watch together (probably a mistake in hindsight....). On the day of the move we all coped really well. During the drive back home my partner who had been all composed till then sobbed his eyes out and the siblings quietly shed a tear. Its a big change for everyone.
The university were brilliant and the student was occupied with activities from day one. Second year students were like a crack team ensuring the newbies settled in. All was well and the promise of regular Skyping and daily texting soon went unfulfilled and do you know what? - it was okay.
When my second child moved it was the same, but worse knowing that this time the nest would be empty. More well timed tears, more promises, but this time my expectations were better managed.
I noticed actually, that the nest wasn't in fact empty but there was my partner with whom quality time had been so scarce for the past twenty years. There was actually space on the sofa next to them and chance to start and finish a conversation without diversion - wow!! I quite liked that, bonus!
Levitate Student says - Its worth remembering that Unis don't really want parents on phone fretting about Jenny or Johnny. If that happens you will probably be met with a word about confidentiality and a suggestion to signpost the student to speak to someone themselves. It is important for students to find their feet, establish some independence and be resourceful enough to find support from the university services if needed. In addition the universities have a duty of care to safeguard their students so they don't give information out over the phone to unverified people readily. Obviously sometimes you may need to contact the university but its worth understanding how the institution may respond and that they do so with the best interests of the student at heart.
"Home" and "Home Home"
I absolutely hated it when my students referred to their uni accommodation as home! It sort of stings a little does that. That said they call home - "home home" so the real thing which is comforting. Calling the uni accommodation home also suggest they are settled enough there and feel safe - so I suppose it's okay (grr!!).
When they are struggling they can seem a long way away, down the end of a phone, but with all the ways to keep in touch these days it's not so bad.
Resist the temptation to "like" every Facebook picture they post, trust me it doesn't go down well!
The bottom drawer

Don't completely dismantle the students bedroom at "home home", its good for them to return to the comforts of their old spot.
Levitate Student says - check out our Fresher: Do Buy Don't Buy post with tips from students.
Money Matters
This is an interesting one and how you approach it will definitely be driven by your household circumstance. The household income (that the funders use to work out how much money the student can receive) is generally the annual gross income of the parent (s) the student lives with, their partner if applicable and the students own unearned income if they have any-which mine didn't. If your student works alongside their course it won't affect their student finance which is good to know.
It can be challenging if parents are separated and perhaps if there is a new relationship with a partner. I am sure it seems weird for the income of that person to count instead of the absent parent, but that's how it is.The funders usually work on a historic tax years income too which can be strange especially if you have had a change of circumstance. A friend of mine has a son going to university this year and the husband has been poorly and now made redundant. However the funder will take these changes into account. Having more than one student in the system is adjusted for too when working out each students level of funding.
Budget
I am not the worlds best at planning a budget myself, even with the best intentions am often just too busy and tired. However I did sit down with my kids and play with a student budget planner, once we had an idea what student finance they would get and what their accommodation would cost.
We talked about what their likely spending would be and agreed what we as parents could help them with. We made sure they applied for a student bank account and spoke to them about sensible use of the overdraft. The student accounts have an interest free overdraft which gives them a safe zone to dip into when funds are low at the end of term. I reckoned as long as this was used wisely it was a good facility to have. We talked about the potential problems of being silly with money and the way bank charges can build.
We agreed a plan and then said we would review it in January. Both my kids have been sensible and manged the arrangement well, I am proud of them. We didn't tell them how to manage their money in fine detail, we thought it would be good to let them try find their own way, then chat about how it was going. I get the impression most students manage their money okay, (with the occasional blip) one way or another.
Levitate Student says - if your student is applying for means tested student finance speak to the relevant funder if you have had a change of circumstance. Especially if it means your income is less than in the tax year requested on the application form. A fall of income of 15% could mean that the funder may carry out an in-year income assessment and could result in more student finance.
Money Saving Expert has a good article on Student Bank Accounts.
There are lots of online budget planners and budgeting mobile phone applications. Its worth searching to find one that suits. The cashflow annual planner templates for example for Excel can be good as they can help a student predict how their spending is going to affect their future bank balance. As they receive their funding in three lumps sums it can be difficult to predict how it might last.
Funding can be late for various reasons so if possible the student should try and get some buffer funds in their bank account. We found that the bank only provided a modest overdraft until the student finance arrived so that can't be relied upon.
Legal Stuff
August will herald the end of any child benefit and tax credits you received for your student -oh well.
Accommodation contracts are a nightmare and signing as a guarantor obligatory and a bit of a worry when its all new. Had mixed experience here as for one tenancy it was just sign on dotted line whereas another required a minimum income and credit check. Definitely understand all you are signing, get advice if needed. The students are pretty much tied into contracts once they sign and many are 52 weeks long which is annoying. Also by the winter/spring of year one the students are panic looking for new place and then are paying deposits on years two rented. By the summer the student has to find and pay the first year two rent installment in summer, they may still be paying for year one rent. It's a cycle that repeats each year so be ready for it.
Halls of residence are pricey and hard to compare with all tariffs being different and number of weeks and what's included varying. Also when and how payments are made vary. One thing which is a bit naughty is some universities or accommodation providers not dividing the rent into 3 equal installments. If the first payment is bigger it can make the first terms bank balance a challenge and Freshers are plunged straight into overdraft. Not helpful.
Most full-time students are exempt from paying council tax.They get an exemption certificate, usually there is information on the university webpages about how it all works.
Also it's worth checking out the Student Regulations at the university of choice.These are a bit like the terms and conditions of being a student. I had a friend whose son didn't settle at university and wanted to leave nearly straight away. If he had stayed beyond two weeks he would have had to pay his full tuition fee until January!! That was a surprise but it was in the Student Regulations so worth checking out....just in case.
Levitate Students says - if your student funding is delayed or they want to leave get them to seek help from the university Support Services as soon as possible.
Lots of issues can arise in the first few weeks but university staff have seen it all before and are very experienced at helping students sort matters out and settle. Don't panic just point your student in the right direction for help.
See our blog post on council tax
Useful to Knows
One of my students didn't want to take up the uni offers they got on A level results day so went into Clearing . It's a good idea to have a plan of action in case this happens as its can be a nerve wracking experience.The universities are all geared up for the mass musical chairs of Clearing. We found it a positive experience in the end and my student was really happy with the final outcome and is settled.
Make sure your student knows where the Support Service teams are at the university just in case they need help. This is important if their funding is delayed or they have problems with it. The university may help out with a little money if a student is in hardship.
Also check if your student is entitled to any bursaries or scholarships from the university, information is usually on the websites.
If your student is disabled or has a specific learning need as one of mine does, then engaging with the uni disability services to have their needs assessed as soon as possible is important. Also get money advice in case there are other things they may be eligible for such as welfare benefits.
Check your own home insurance policy, ours covered our students for contents while they live away at university.
It may be that your student won't need a TV licence as they don't seem to watch any live telly. Check the rules to be safe though.
Bottom line - it will all be fine!
Saturday, 7 November 2020
Budgeting Apps and Managing your Money
95% 0f households in UK have mobile phones where only 88% have a computer and only 89% have internet access.
(ONS 2020)
So more and more people are using smartphones to download apps
for activities and services which help them keep in touch, shop, search for
information and be entertained.
What is an App? It is short for application and is a
computer programme designed to run on a mobile device.
Budgeting apps can support customers manage their money by
helping them to monitor their spending, plan ahead and budget day to day to make sure they
have money to cover their needs.
An initiative called Open Banking has made it easier
for app providers to let you see all you bank accounts in one place.
Open Banking is all the technologies and the rules that
allow you to safely share your financial information with app providers. Read
more on www.openbanking.org.uk
2 million users have already downloaded budgeting/banking apps (OBIE 2020)
Only consider budgeting apps that are registered with the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA), an
independent organisation who parliament task
to protect customers of financial services.
Lets look a Yolt as
an example of a budgeting app. It is free to download and is registered with
the FCA. Yolt provides a Feature
Spotlight describing what the app can do. Here are just a few features
• Account
aggregation – the core feature that relies on Open Banking and your
permission to bring your current accounts, savings, credit cards, pension and
investment information into on place
• Build
a budget – to let you set a monthly budget, define goals, set reminders,
monitor and predict your spending patterns
• Set
Categories – apply categories to your transactions to suit you
• Tagging
– allowing you to personalise transactions with a #tag to help monitor total
spending on tagged items
• Pay
Day – amend your budgeting period to run from your Pay Day
• Split
costs – to help split shared costs like restaurant bills with friends
• Move
money – to help you save
*Remember there are lots of budgeting apps – to see more that are also registered with the FCA visit www.openbanking.org.uk
Budgeting well can ensure you have enough money for all your
living costs and have some money set aside for planned future spending,
unexpected costs or your longer term security.
Is a budgeting app right for me? Listing pros and
cons can help you think about the positives and negatives of using a
budgeting app.
Using Yolt as an
example, try a 3 step approach to create a pros and cons that applies to
your circumstances.
Step 1: Features, Advantages, Benefits (FAB)
On the Yolt website,
in the search box enter Feature Spotlight to display articles
about some of the app’s Features (or what the app can do).
Read the Feature Spotlights and notice some of the suggested
Advantages of that feature. For example see “Connect your accounts
from supported banks”. It suggests that “getting a proper overview
of your all money can be tough” . The suggested advantage of this
feature is you can “see all your
money in one place. Even if each account has different login details.” Do
you agree?
How would this be of Benefit to you? How might it save you
time or be easier to do?
Try to write down some Features of
Yolt, the Advantages and how you
might Benefit from them to manage your money.
These benefits are the Pros of the app to you!
Step 2. Complete the Budgeting Needs questionnaire
Do you need to improve your budgeting? Could an app be the answer?
Step 3. Using customer reviews
Finding negatives of a product can be hard, they won’t be on
the products website. When exploring the Yolt
website did you spot features that you thought where negatives? View more
pages and read the Frequently Ask Questions. Write negatives you see in
the Cons box on activity sheet.
Customer who have already used the app might be able to help
you. Trustpilot is a website
where people write reviews about products and services.
Search for Yolt on
Trustpilot. How many reviews are there?
Read some reviews, you might spot some more Pros for your
list. Are there negative reviews? Has Yolt
responded to clarify the issue?
List some possible negatives in your Cons list.
Monday, 12 October 2020
Reasons to be fearful are Compelling and Personal - Levitate Student
Compelling Personal Reason
This is a concept, written into the various student finance legislations, which can be called upon to afford a student an extra year of funding if needed.
New undergraduate students have a Standard Entitlement to student finance Tuition Fee support (and via linked regulations to maintenance support) based on the following formula (simplified here)
Length of Course plus One Year
minus Years of Previous study at Higher Education level
It is more complex than this, so always seek advice if you have previous study. However for the purpose of this post it is a useful rule of thumb.
So, eligible new students get the "plus one" year to allow for an academic wobble, This means that a student could start a course elsewhere if their current course doesn't suit them, or repeat a year if they fail etc etc. and still get fee funding for the ordinary duration of that new course.
However written into the regulations for undergraduates are some rules that allow for extra years of tuition fee support to be award in addition to the Standard Entitlement. Generally this is where the student
- needs to repeat a year of their course for Compelling Personal Reasons (CPR) or
- failed to complete their most recent previous course for Compelling Personal Reasons
Of course Covid 19 crashed into academic year 2019/20 meaning lots of students are needing to repeat some of their course in 20/21. Student Finance England have made it plain that they intend to use the "plus one" year provision in most cases to award funding for this repeat. They have confirmed that where a student has already exhausted their "plus one" year then they will consider CPR subject to the normal provision of evidence to support the case.
This smacks as one rule for one and one rule for another and using the legislation to suit the funder (regarding ease of administration) rather than to afford the student their rights.
What does it matter you might ask? Well later in the course a student may fail a year for academic reasons and need that "plus one" year of fee funding to cover their repeat.
Don't worry says Student Finance England, if this happens then we will retrospectively apply CPR to the 20/21 repeat and free up the "plus one year".
Reasons to be Fearful 1,2,3 ...
1. It is not likely that this will be done automatically. Most students have never heard of the provision for CPR so there is a risk that they may not tell the funder to reinstate their lost plus one year. Students fortunate enough to speak to a money adviser about the problem may be pointed in the right direction but many students do not access advice services.
2. Evidence is key to the decision of the funders to award CPR. The further a student gets from the year where compelling personal reasons disrupted their studies, the harder it can be to have good quality evidence to support their case.
3. What about the future Standard Entitlement? While moves may be afoot by the government to introduce a lifelong entitlement to student finance in England and Wales, currently the formula above applies.
So let's imagine an undergraduate student who struggled in 19/20, repeats in 20/21 but decides to withdraw before the year ends. Imagine they then return to study in 5 years time. Assuming nothing drastic has changed to the formula above - how long will the funders memory stretch with regard to the fact this student's "plus one" year entitlement was used up for the repeat in 20/21? Will the student know enough about the rules to challenge the funder without the help of an adviser? What if the Department for Education directs Student Finance England to no longer retrospectively switch the "plus one" year back to a CPR for repeats taken in 20/21?
This is a matter of Rights and Responsibilities - students have a right to funding as outlined in the regulations and the funder a responsibility to apply the rules as written.
While we do not doubt the desire of the funders to make the processes for getting funding to the students repeating in 20/21 as easy as possible we do fear that in the process some students, particularly those who do not seek advice or who return to study in years to come, may find themselves losing out on a precious year of tuition fee support.
Friday, 28 August 2020
What's a National Insurance Number & why do Student Finance need it?
In order to be eligible to various benefits provided by the government most workers in the UK have to pay National Insurance Contributions. Eligibility to some of these benefit can depend on the level of a persons contribution record. So even if they are not working (through choice, unemployment or sickness) it may be important to keep paying National Insurance Contributions.
People are issued with a National Insurance Number and this will be used throughout life - by employers paying your contributions;when applying for welfare benefits or pensions; for some personal financial matters; when registering to vote etc. Many people in the past will have been issued with a plastic card (like a credit card) with their number on. More recently a letter has been issued with the number on instead of the card.
To find out more about
- National Insurance
- How to apply for a National Insurance Number (NINO) if you have not got one or
- How to be reminded of a previously issued number
Q: So why do Student Finance need your National Insurance N
umber and refuse to release your student loans if you do not provide one?
A: Because they need it in order to arrange your loan repayments
When repayment of the student loans became dependent on a student's earnings after they have left their course, the government needed to devise a method of recovering the loans from students income. So as not to reinvent the wheel, the already existing system and process of taking money from employees income used for collecting income tax by Her Majesty's Revenue and Customs was utilised. As the student finance repayments are now income contingent plus the method and organisation used to reclaim it from employee is HMRC, it is often said that repaying a student loan is like taxing a graduate.
Previous students (full-time) who have taken a loan from Student Finance become liable to start repaying in the April after leaving their course and when their income is over the applicable repayment threshold.
If the student is employed then their employer will use the Pay as You Earn system to calculate the correct amount to take from the employees. The employer pass these monies to HMRC who in turn inform the Student Loan Company so that their records can be amended. Students can access information about their repayment record via an On-Line Account
The amount of loan repayment taken each week or month by your employer is based on your income used to also calculate your National Insurance Contributions.
So Student Finance need your National Insurance Number because your student loan repayment is facilitated by the Student Loans Company in partnership with HMRC. The amount deducted from your wages as an employee is linked to your "NICable income". Student Finance avoid paying the maintenance loan unless satisfactory information has been provided to allow recovery of the loan at a later date. This is prudent, given that students can withdraw from a course at any time so the liability to enter repayment is not always years in the future.
As with any student finance matter the process and detail is more complex than this. Different rules exist for certain courses, for those who are self-employed or live overseas after they leave their courses.
If you want to read more detailed information about the repayment of student loans in England and Wales try Repayment of Income Contingent Student Loans Academic Year 20/21
Tuesday, 25 August 2020
How Parents can decide whether to use savings to reduce their student's borrowing
So Taylor Swift made one prospective student's dream come true with a generous donation to support her studies.
Stories about students like this are very rare. What isn't rare though is Parents, Partners, Friends and Family wondering whether or not to donate their savings. to their student in order to reduce the amount of student loan they have to take out.
Even the student may have savings and are wondering whether to reduce their student loan borrowing.
This can feel like a tough decision and it can be hard to make a proper informed choice.
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Your Reason to help…. |
Ask yourself…. |
Explore…… |
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Less Debt -
It will reduce how much my student will have to borrow and pay back. |
Is this true? Do you have sufficient savings to mean they don’t have to take on
any student loan? Does the funder expect you to contribute anyway to your student's living costs? (If the students depends on you financially and your household income is above £25K the answer to this is likely to be yes). Can your savings cover the full fees charged and living costs for
the whole undergraduate course and any further study? |
Can the savings help more effectively in other ways apart from
reducing borrowing, for example ·
Helping with day to day costs ·
Help with rent ·
Help save for beyond graduation |
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Less Debt – if I pay the fees he/she/they will
owe less money and pay back less. |
Is this true? Does the funder expect you to contribute anyway to your student's living costs? (If the students depends on you financially and your household income is above £25K the answer to this is likely to be yes). |
Can the savings help more
effectively in other ways apart from reducing borrowing, for example ·
Helping
with day to day costs ·
Help
with rent ·
Help
student save for beyond graduation |
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Want to Help –
I have saved up for the day my student goes to university for years, I want
them to borrow less student loan. |
Is this wise? Is this the best use of your capital? Does the funder expect you to contribute anyway to your student's living costs? (If the students depends on you financially and your household income is above £25K the answer to this is likely to be yes). Can your savings cover the full fees charged and living costs for
the whole undergraduate course and any further study? |
Can the savings help more effectively in other ways apart from
reducing borrowing, for example ·
Helping with day to day costs ·
Help with rent ·
Help save for beyond graduation |
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Sacrifice – I need my savings myself but feel
I should sacrifice them as it seems wrong for my student to borrow so much
and be burdened with debt. |
Is this wise? What might happen if you need your
cash reserves? Does the funder expect you to contribute anyway to your student's living costs? (If the students depends on you financially and your household income is above £25K the answer to this is likely to be yes). Can your savings cover the full fees
charged and living costs for the whole undergraduate course and any further study? |
Can the savings help more
effectively in other ways apart from reducing borrowing, for example ·
Helping
with day to day costs ·
Help
with rent ·
Help student save for beyond graduation, for example by helping them open Life-Time ISA |
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Well off –
I have plenty of money saved so I am not worried about using it |
Do you need your savings yourself? Does the funder expect you to contribute anyway to your student's living costs? (If the students depends on you financially and your household income is above £25K the answer to this is likely to be yes). Can your savings cover the full fees charged and living costs for
the whole undergraduate course and any further study? |
Can the savings help more effectively in other ways apart from
reducing borrowing, for example ·
Helping with day to day costs ·
Help with rent ·
Help save for beyond graduation |
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Play
with the repayment calculator here on see how much a student’s repayments are
altered by borrowing less |
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One thing that is true is that if you use your savings that money will be gone.
If a student
takes the Tuition Fee Loan and the Maintenance Loan to pay for their tuition
and living costs then while how much they borrow may be a set amount, how
much they pay back is not.
Repayment of government Student Loans for students from England Wales taken out since September 2012 is Income Contingent…..this means it depends on
how much the graduate student earns from the time they become eligible to repay. It does not
depend on how much they have borrowed.
Use the Money Saving Expert Calculator to test your assumptions that by reducing a student’s borrowing means they will pay less back to the government.
Try changing the amount of the fee loan and/or living cost loan borrowed.
Play with the assumptions about beyond graduation earnings.
Would a lump sum from you alter what the student might pay back over the term of the loan?
This may help you decide how best to utilise your hard earned savings.
Read More:
From a Parent to a Parent and Bank(-rupt) of Mum and Dad
Saturday, 22 August 2020
How Taylor Swift made a dream come true & why it mattered
So Taylor Swift just gifted £23,000 to prospective student Vitoria Mario!!
This is a Story Sweeter Than Fiction, apparently Vitoria set up a fundraising page where she was asking for help towards her expected living cost so she could attend her desired Maths undergraduate course.
Call It What You Want - but it's a very generous gesture on behalf of the Gorgeous Ms Swift. Everything Has Changed for Vitoria who initially probably thought it was a Hoax, but once confirmed she has likely just had the best August ever.
The story was that Vitoria wasn't eligible for living cost support in the form of the Maintenance Loan or Grants from Student Finance England. Without this Vitoria says she was worried she could not afford to go to university.
Read all about it here:-
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-53857694
So Today Was A Fairytale for Vitoria with a gesture going beyond her Wildest Dreams, but how has it left you feeling? Are you jealous, thinking how come she is The Lucky One? Are you having Mean thoughts? Well best to Shake it Off asap and get ready with Eyes Open to embark on your own higher education journey feeling Fearless regarding your own funding entitlement, understanding the loan repayment rules and with robust plans to cover your course and living costs. Are you ....Ready for It?
We are going to look here a little at the funding entitlement residency rules.
Residence Entitlement Rules
These rules are complex but in order for most school leaving undergraduate students to be entitled to help towards tuitions fee and living cost support from Student Finance England, they need to
- have no restrictions on their right to live in the UK (known as Settled Status) and
- normally live in England (known as Ordinary Residence)
- have lived in the UK and islands for 3 years before the course began
- is from Portugal
- has lived in the UK for 4 years
- her mum still lives in Portugal
Friday, 14 August 2020
Where might Clearing Lead You? To a First Class Honours!
Here is a Fresher walking into Edge Hill University on his first day
Facts
1) Edge Hill had been his third choice University
2) On A Level results day he did not achieve the grades for his first choice university
3) On A Level results day he got an offer from his second choice university but since making that choice he had changed his mind about wanting to study there.
4) At 9am on results day he rang Edge Hill who rapidly came back with an offer, guided him through the scary part of declining the offer from the second choice university and reassured him their offer would be made firm.
5) By noon he had secured his place at Edge Hill
Outcome - Three years later he graduated with a First Class Honours Degree having loved his time in Ormskirk
What's the buzz about Clearing? Six Money B's to help.
Again universities are used to this process happening year on year and will provide guidance. You may have to consider living in Private Rented instead of Halls. You may have to start looking for a place at short notice. Remember that it won’t just be you and the university may put you in touch with other students in the same situation. They may have lists of private rented accommodation providers or of shared houses with a room available. Also prospective students often use social media to find others to share with. So be ready to respond to these options.
You do not have to go into halls and if you chose private rented then understand your rights fully. Look on www.shelter.org.uk and www.unipol.org.uk for helpful information. Also learn about Tenancy Deposit Schemes








